Hola My Readers!
This is My first blog and as I am writing this gives me Seventh Heaven of Happiness, so I decided why not let’s start with the most Amazing-Blissful! still most Questioned-Googled. Important still the Most Ignored Aspect!
Your, Mine and Our Real Happiness!
Unfortunately, We are a part of generation, Where we desire everything, Immature Success! We start our day in hurry & end with anxiety in our heads & what the Saddest part is We Become a Part of this switching our self to
temporary Methods of Pleasure like social media and Netflix.
I have A question for you all!?
Its working hopefully Well but till when? You need to know your own real happiness, you should keep yourself updated to another version of you, I know it sounds a lil filmy but mark my words, It Works! Here I am with some realistic tips & I really hope that it will help you find yourself & happiness in your daily routine.
1. WAKE UP EARLY:
“WAKE UP EARLY AND TACKLE THE DAY BEFORE IT TACKLES YOU”
We people are Night Owls, Yea! Some of us have our genuine reasons to be such, but rest of them are just indulged in some mere unproductive stuffs.
Being a Morning Person is absolutely your first step towards a Happy day. When You Wake up fresh! It not only gives you an edge for the day but also enough time for daily routines. You can divide your work as per your
requirement and it will help you in balancing the day. Its just a simple utility of Time Management.
“A happy & productive morning is sign of calm mind and relaxing heart.”
2.DON’T CHECK YOUR PHONE JUST AFTER YOUR EYES OPEN!
If we make a true list of our tasks, then you will notice that Checking Mobile phones tops the list, making it a mere addiction. It’s a fact that Majority of us starts their day checking Mails and all other social plugins. This is the point where Struggle and Fight with your oneself begins!
Reason Why? Checking all your social Plugins firstly in the morning, watching your friend’s victory, abroad trip etc give some negative vibes to you.
THINK! You are putting to shake your most peaceful time to activities which don’t makes any sense in your life and Hola! You lost your 30 minutes in your 10 minutes of scrolling!!
“Don’t let yourself Grab in the cage of Social Plugins”
3.DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS:
“COMPARISON MAKES FINDING CONTENTMENT A MILLION TIME HARDER”
Respect Yourself! Yes, that’s the Trick. There’s no one like you & that’s your strength. Comparing spreads negativity into your nerves. We humans are not equal, having our own talents, Potential, & definition of success. After knowing this much, still we choose to compare ourselves and choose to underestimate ourselves!
I request you for Yourself! Stop this Maths of Comparison! It will always end up in creating a Big Mess for you. Look in the Mirror, and that is your true competition! Fight with yourself to update yourself to the best Version. Only you are the painter of your Canvas! Don’t let anyone take the seat for you!
4. YOU ARE, YOUR FIRST PRIORITY:
“MAKE YOUSELF A PRIORITY!
AT THE END OF THE DAY, YOU ARE YOUR LONGEST COMMITMENT”
We are grown up in an environment where we often hear “Be the reason of someone else’s smile, spread happiness everywhere” But No-one told us “not at cost of your own happiness”. We usually give people all care, concern, love and most important of them, our time, forgetting to do the same thing for oneself. It’s a bitter truth about making someone else your priority, it’s like making him the driver of your life. They will never value, notice this, even the more you give, they will expect from you more at the cost of your inner peace. So, start making yourself your priority and understand the true meaning of priority. By Doing this , you will meet with
another version of yourself. A Contented soul!
5.START SAYING NO:
“IT’s All OKAY, TO SAY NO”
Saying no sometimes is healthy for your soul! You are not here just to please everyone around! Do not confuse it with EGO! Instead it’s your first step towards self-love and self-worth!
6.SIT WITH YOURSELF AND ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY: –
“SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO DISCONNECT AND ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY”
Yea! You read it right!! We often spend time with our family, friends, colleagues but we forget to enjoy a healthy conversation with oneself.
When we start spending time with oneself. We don’t need to be the perfect one! See how fascinating it is. Enjoying me time reading your fav. Book, listening to your playlists, watching sunset or dancing like a crazy person in your “pyjamas”.
Spending time with yourself is just a synonym of exploring yourself! Start your Me Time today! Its more lovely than it seems!
7.UPDATE YOUR COLLECTION: –
“OUR SURROUNDINGS INFLUENCE US”
As per psychology, positive surrounding of people and collection of good books and positive taste will end up improving your mindset and bringing in positivism to you. Hangout with those people who help you smile and improve yourself to be a better person.
After giving you some steps in above seven points, I just want to tell you there is No Specific definition of Happiness. You can find this in 5 minutes of break during a long study session, in the voice of rain, getting a window seat while you travel, eating a dessert after long hectic day, in the smile of a lil child and your parents ,talking with your loved ones etc.
Never let the failure pressure you, Acceptance-Rejection, all up’s and down of your life define your happiness. Your happiness is in you, the way you see the world.
You already are universe of happiness, don’t let any temporary situation take it away from you.
Hola! My Readers!
Smile a little more, Care a Little More! Cherish a Little More!This little more makes a significant change in your life and others! Find your Seventh Heaven in You!
Will be back soon with my Another Post Soon. Till then, try to follow these steps and do write to me about how you felt!